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Common English Conversation Mistakes (and How to Fix them)
Many English learners spend years studying grammar and vocabulary, but still struggle when it comes to real conversations. Often, the problem isn't grammar, it's small habits that make speech sound unnatural or awkward. Here are some of the most common English conversation mistakes and how to fix them.
1. Overusing Formal Language
Many learners speak as if they're writing an essay or reading from a textbook. Real conversation is much more relaxed. Instead of long, polite forms, use shorter, natural expressions.
“I would like to make a reservation for two.”
“Can I book a table for two?”
Native speakers use contractions and simpler words in daily speech. You don't have to be overly polite to sound respectful, just natural.
However, there is a time and a place for formal language. Booking a table at an expensive restaurant for example, would likely favour a more polite form.
2. Forgetting to Ask Questions Back
Many learners answer questions but forget to continue the conversation. Perhaps out fear they might say something incorrect, or are just shy to use English. Sometimes, it's as simple as asking the same question back.
A: “Where are you from?” B: “I'm from Italy.”
A: “Where are you from?” B: “I'm from Italy. How about you?”
Other times the conversation demands listening, thinking and responding.
A: “Where are you from?”
B: “I'm from Italy. How about you?”
A: "England"
B: "Cool"
A: “Where are you from?”
B: “I'm from Italy. How about you?”
A: "England"
B: "Cool, where from in England?"
A: "Newcastle. Have you heard of it?"
B: "Yes, I have. My cousin went to University there.
...And so on...
Showing curiosity makes conversations flow naturally. It also helps you sound more confident and socially comfortable.
3. Translating Directly from Your Language
Thinking in your native language first and translating can create unnatural expressions. English has its own idioms and phrasing, so try to think directly in English.
“It makes me hungry in my eyes.” - French idiom
“That looks delicious!”
The best fix is practice. Listen, read, and speak English regularly until certain phrases become automatic. When you start to say phrases (not words) naturally and automatically, English gets a bit easier to use.
4. Using Textbook Expressions Too Often
Textbook English sounds correct but not real. Phrases like “It is very nice to meet you” or “I am fine, thank you” are rarely said that way in real life.
“It is very nice to meet you.”
“Nice to meet you!”
“I am doing good, how are you doing?”
“I'm good, how are you?”
Simple, quick and casual. Natural English is shorter and to the point, almost sounding like one long word.
Conclusion
Small changes make a big difference in how natural you sound. Don't worry about perfection, just focus on relaxing, reacting, and connecting like you would in your first language. With consistent practice, these fixes will become automatic.
Also read: How to Sound More Native in English